My wife apparently feels bad because I am the Energetic Dad a lot, and she's not high energy. And I am a little worked into knots over the fact that I want her to recognize how great she is.
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
I can understand, women are supposed to be everything and everywhere with child care. Hopefully she will end up finding solace in your own energy that enables her to sit in the back seat according to her own energy level.
I mean, it's not back seat, she is amazing and doing lots. But I am the one who tickles the kid, who sings with him, and who can get a giggle by dancing and being silly. And like, I wont stop that, but it's gotta be hard to be doing equal work and the kid giggling for me more...

Yesterday she confronted me about her not doing enough, and I thought she was gonna say I was doing too little. And it was kinda shocking.
Hypolite Petovan friendica (via ActivityPub)
It's definitely back seat, no matter for what.